I’m single, but i do a lot to meet someone. I’m on a few dating apps and actually message people and i go to meet-ups, host events and go out. I talk to people and see the reason alot of people are single is the lack of effort they put in and being scared by a few shit experiences. My friend is a good example, she is pretty, sweet, funny and rich. But she has been single for like 10 years, she had a boyfriend at 20 who was a bit shit and every few years she tries online, meets someone and gets scared off.
So like most people she messages the hottest guy and she loves gym fit, so idiots, and then she’s shocked they ghost her after sex. I never have or will but i’m not handsome think i can do better with a swipe. So she’s then alone for 3 years, and tries again. My ex-wife is the reverse, when i met her, she has experienced alot more shit at mens hands but still gave me a shot,and got 10 years of loyalty, praise and holidays.
Men can be shit but it’s not all of us, only 10% of magpies swoop, but everyone is fainted. I’ve never done anything to hurt men or women and we’re out there. just ask them what they think of women and sex and consent. If you don’t want to be single , get proactive.